The 7 Things Men Really Need From A Woman

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What does a man really need from a woman he’s dating? It’s not an easy question. In fact, answering such a question requires a thorough understanding of male psychology, human psychology, love, behavioral patterns… the list could go on and on.

“What men want in women and from women is getting more complex by the minute,” said expert Eric Jaffe in Psychology Today. “Men and their motives are evolving.”

As social norms and the way we date and view relationships change, so does what we want. This makes it more important than ever to understand what men really need, not just what they say they need or think they need.

True, there are some men who are good at communicating what they want. But more often than not, men are taught to stay strong, be tough in the face of sadness, and put up a false bravado when grappling with emotions. Because of this, they often don’t think to communicate about what they need in a relationship, or may not even be aware of it.

Though every man is different and the specific things that make them happy vary, there are a few fundamental things that almost every man needs from a woman he’s dating.

Here are the six most important needs from you when you’re in a relationship:

1. Heart
Most men (not all) aren’t always able to share their worries, fears, and frustrations with others. Because of this, they need a woman to open up to, who is kind and understanding enough to be vulnerable with.

2. Attention
Men need women who are good listeners, because when they start talking about something personal or private they get into a type of flow. Interrupting this flow too much might cause a man to shut down. Instead, when a man is opening up about something, offer him feedback if he asks or seems receptive, but for the most part just let him express himself.

Give him the space to be vulnerable by making an effort to be in a good emotional state yourself. If you’re falling apart or always on an emotional roller coaster, he won’t feel comfortable discussing his issues with you. By being there for him when he’s ready to talk and giving him your full attention, you’ll bring a refreshing sense of peace and serenity to his life. I know, it sounds kind of airy-fairy and spiritual but it’s true!

Just to be clear, I’m not saying you should be fake and have a giant grin on your face at all times. (That’s not going to help anyone.) My point here is that you should be a positive presence as much as you can. This makes it easier for him to open up to you.

3. Respect
Men need respect in general but in particular when it comes to dating and relationships. Most men need a woman who appreciates them for who and what they are. Look at what he’s skilled at and passionate about and be encouraging in a genuine way. Don’t pretend to feel a way you don’t just to make a man interested in you.

It’s a little old school, but some men also want to be seen as heroes in a sense. Not like he actually needs to save you, but he wouldn’t mind saving the day once in a while. That means he wants to be someone you look up to or go to for advice. Ask him questions about things you’re genuinely interested in. Ask for his input. Going to the person you care about when you’re struggling with something is part of a healthy relationship and will also make a man feel needed and wanted.

4. Freedom
Freedom in a relationship means giving a man space when he needs it, letting him go out with his male friends, encouraging his hobbies, and respecting him as an individual separate from the relationship you share. Giving a man freedom also means that he isn’t your entire life. If you define yourself by the man you’re seeing, there’s a good chance you could scare him away.

5. Trust
Tupac famously raps, “I want to take away your pain and misery but all I need is your faith in me.” Having trust and faith in a man means you think he’s a good person. You know him and aren’t trying to accuse, blame, or attack him. If a man doesn’t feel comfortable with you, he’ll move on to another woman. Trust and have faith in a man unless he gives you a reason not to. Being on the same team, being partners in crime, is at the heart of true love. If you want to give yourself the chance to feel and experience this, learn to let go and trust the person you’re with.

6. Authenticity
A man doesn’t want a woman who pretends to be one way in order to please him. This can be misinterpreted as you having secret, hidden agenda or can make you seem manipulative when you’re really just trying to make someone happy. Instead of approaching your relationship by asking yourself, “What does this man need from me?” think of it as, “What do I want to give to this man?” Find what you naturally want to give without looking to get anything in return. This is an energy men (and human beings in general) can’t get enough of.

7. Sex & Attraction
It’s no secret that men, and women, need sex. But physical intimacy includes a lot more than just sex including kissing, cuddling, teasing… the whole shebang. Men need women who let them feel sexually open and who aren’t afraid to be intimate or find pleasure. For both men and women, sex is a way to feel connected and deepen your bond. Men need to feel comfortable expressing their true sexual desires without thinking they’ll be judged, shamed, or mocked for them.

Men don’t need big boobs, a tight little rear end, a flat stomach, long hair, or a lot of makeup to be attracted. But they do need to be turned on by the women they’re with. This doesn’t mean you need to always have your hair done just right and your makeup absolutely perfect but you should care about yourself and take care of your appearance.

Trust me. Right now, you have what a man needs. And you’ll find a man who naturally likes you for who you are and how you are. Don’t worry about trying to fit into some mold of what a man needs. Instead, love yourself and know that when the right person comes along it will feel natural.

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Reasons Why Fulanis Don't Eat Their Cow Meat, Produce Unmarketable Milk - Femi Fani Kayode

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Chief Femi Fani Kayodo, the Chieftain of Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) has given brief reasons why fulani cows does not produce much milk to arrest public demand of the product in Nigeria.

The former aviation minister under Goodluck Jonathan, claimed that the reason is incumbent why the Fulanis do not consume meat from their cows.

kayode said this in a post on his Facebook on Saturday, said: “Do you know that Fulani cows are the only cows in the world that do not produce much milk?

“That is why, despite being a nation that literally worships cows and that is being led by cow-Iovers, we still import 95% of our dairy products.”

He said Fulani’s diabolic mindedness has made their business unproductive, barren and mean, adding that the cows are objects of Iitual sex and foul bestiality by their owners.

“Like the herdsmen themselves Fulani cows are mean, barren, unproductive. anorexic, bulimic, diseased. anaemic, dry. accursed. charmed and often objects of Iitual sex and foul bestiality by  their owners.

“If you want to see real cows go to places like South America. South Africa or ANYWHERE else in the world.

“We do not have cows in Nigeria: we have four legged entities, demons and creatures that have come to the world as cows.

“My advice? Stop eating Fulani cow meat because it is charmed. It dulls the brain and drains your spiritual sensitivity and potency. It causes confusion and makes you weak, docile and stoic.

“That is why the Fulani themselves do not eat their own cows! ”

In his early post, Kayode pointed out three biggest mistakes President Mohammadu Buhari’s led administration has made.

The PDP stalwart said for the predicted to had proscribed the dual-groups and to skip Fulani herders, who have destroying lives and properties, he ” will regret ALL three!”

In his words: ” The 3 biggest mistakes @MBuhari has made are:

1. To prescribe IPOB and persecute its members.

2. To proscribe IMN and persecute its members.

3. To encourage the mass murder of Nigerians by Fulani herdsmen and refuse to declare them as terrorists.

He will regret ALL three!”

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Lesbanism in the Islamic World - It Has Taken Over The Continent Yet The People Pretend.

“Come my love and let us embark on a journey to the land of love. This is the key to happiness. Come let us enter the depth of life, because I have not tasted the taste of happiness except with you. Let me drown in the sight of you, perfume myself in your breaths, in the love of your heart and the warmth of your bosom. There is nothing more special in my life than you, my heart is filled with you, my apologies to others,” a woman named Tamara posted on the Facebook page “Muslim Lesbians”

“I am a young Sudanese woman, 21 years old. I’ve been a lesbian since the age of 15 and a Muslim in my way. And like all the lesbians in our Eastern world, I have no outlet nor a way to meet a group of lesbians like myself with whom I can share our thoughts and problems before we share our love. I, and many lesbians, are hiding as much as possible so that our future and our sexual orientation will be secure. I’m proud of being a lesbian and I hope for the day when I can meet lesbians in my country,” wrote another woman on a different site, asking that her name not be published.

Other women are not afraid to publish their photos, some with romantic partners and others without, and even the ruling of the grand mufti of Egypt, Shawki Allam, that “no one has the right to harm homosexuals or discriminate against them,” appears on the site. That is an important ruling that stirred major controversy when it was published in 2016.

Allam subsequently clarified that homosexuality is forbidden according to Islam, but that “homosexuals are no less valuable human beings than others.” He did not say how great a sin it is or whether it reaches the level of apostasy.

Like many other experts in religious law, the grand mufti of Egypt regards homosexuality as a sickness or the result of confused identity, and therefore “anyone who shows this disgusting tendency should go to an expert doctor to try to treat this ugly sickness.”

Lesbians who visit the site can take no great comfort from the mufti’s statements. Some of them told of their difficult experiences when they revealed their sexual orientation to their families. Others were thrown out of their homes or forced to marry quickly to “heal the perversion,” and the lives of some were put in danger. One woman posted that she had decided to see doctors of her own accord to “heal” herself.

“They took huge sums of money from me. They gave me strange medicines and psychologists whom I went to started to explain to me how to arouse my feelings of sexual attraction to men. I realized that they are bound by the same male and religious thinking that my sexual orientation is a sickness that can and should be healed,” the woman wrote.

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Last year, a Lebanese judge, Rabia Maalouf, dared rule for the striking from the criminal code of a law that calls for a year in prison for anyone whose sexuality differs from the “order of nature.” “Homosexuals and lesbians have the right to have human and romantic relations with anyone they want. That is the basic right of every human being,” Maalouf declared.

He based his ruling on the World Health Organization’s conclusion that homosexuality is not a sickness or a deficiency, and therefore does not require healing, “especially not conversion therapy or what is known as correction treatments.”

Maalouf’s ruling, as expected, stirred stormy responses from the Lebanese council of Islamic clergy, which stated that it “clashes with all laws of all religions, with rational thinking and with accepted custom. This ruling is illegal.”

If homosexuality among secular people in Muslim countries is unbearable, how much more so is it among religious gay people, who find it difficult to resolve the contradiction between religious rulings and their forbidden sexual orientation. Aisha, from Syria, the administrator of the “Muslim Lesbians” Facebook page, explains:

“Religious rulings place homosexuality in contradiction to religion. Thus, when a homosexual cannot give up his sexual orientation, he is forced to leave religion and become an infidel or a person of no religion.” Aisha herself decided to remain in the faith after studying the sources and concluding that Islam does not prohibit homosexuality.

Fatmeh, a Palestinian lesbian and Aisha’s partner in administrating the page, says: “There is not one verse in the Koran that prohibits homosexuality.” According to Fatmeh, religious leaders rely on a verse relating to the sin of Lot and his family. “The sin of Lot’s family was not homosexuality, but the rape of men and highway robbery. That is, the way the sexual act was carried out is prohibited, not the very act itself.”

This original interpretation does not persuade most believers, nor religious leaders, but it allows women like Fatmeh to find a reasonable way to interpret the prohibition and continue to see themselves as faithful believers.

The fortunate lesbians are the ones who have been able to immigrate to a Western country, where they can live a lesbian lifestyle and even marry, and also receive political asylum, if needed, with the rightful claim that being returned to their homeland could cost them their lives.

Miriam hid her sexuality from her strict Muslim parents for years. When she eventually did come out to them, she found it impossible to translate "lesbian" into Punjabi or Urdu. She explains how the conversation put an end to her double life "playing the straight woman" but caused a rift so deep that her father disowned her.

"I always knew I was attracted to the same gender - as young as four or five, when I kissed my best friend in the cloakroom, I knew then.

"But it wasn't until I was in college that I first started exploring. We got the internet at home and there was a dial-up computer in my brother's room - it had a lock on the door.

"I used to go on Yahoo chat, I remember sometimes I pretended I was a man, for the sake of speaking to women. Then from 18, 19, I [thought], 'maybe I need to look for lesbian women'."

Miriam* grew up in a traditional Muslim family in Bristol where her grandfather "ruled the roost", with Islamic sermons and prayers five times a day.

Despite knowing from a young age she was gay, she knew telling her parents would cause a rift that might prove insurmountable. She went to great lengths to hide it but found an outlet in which to explore her sexuality by speaking to women in chat rooms.

It was only when she went to university that she built up the courage to meet other women in person, travelling hundreds of miles so she wouldn't be seen by anyone she knew.

"I went as far as Manchester or Hartlepool, as long as it was a minimum of two hours away.

"I was absolutely [terrified] of having a relationship with someone in the same city as me. These scenarios used to play through my mind - what if someone sees me at the station?"

Fearful as she was of being caught out, these relationships gave Miriam freedom.

"I made sure that my girlfriends didn't visibly mark me, so I didn't come home with [love bites] on my neck. But while I was there, it was thrilling - I thought, 'Oh my god, I'm doing this, I'm having a sexual experience with another woman, this is amazing'.

"At the time, the people I met didn't question the fact it was long distance. One woman in particular I only saw every other month. I used to go up on the train, meet for a few hours, go to a pub, have some food. We were quite open, it felt massively liberating."

Some went on for much longer: for a year she went to Burnley, near Manchester, to visit a Muslim woman who was married with a child.

"I used to stay in the B&B down the road. Her husband worked nights and at 18:30 he would go to work and I'd go through the back door. I'd set an alarm for 05:30 and go out the back door again. It was ridiculous. Her family knew of me but I was a 'friend who was visiting'.

"It didn't occur to them I could have been a sexual partner and her husband never caught me. There was a naivety to it all, I didn't think it was my problem to bear because I was so used to living this closeted life. Even thinking about it now chokes me up, because I think, 'how did I do that?'"

Under the guise of friendship, Miriam did, on one occasion, take her lover home to her parents' house in Bristol.

"She was Muslim - if it was anyone else but her, it would have been difficult. But because she looked Asian it was easier [to explain her presence] than [bringing home] a white girlfriend. She had the cultural and religious understanding - she knew how to behave.

"My room had two beds it, my parents never came in my room anyway so we slept in the same bed. We were exploring this new world, it was amazing and refreshing. In some ways it was so easy, it was almost a relief.

"But it was so whirlwind, she had to leave - her plans were premade for her and she went home to Saudi Arabia. It was heartbreaking, knowing we were so close to something so perfect."

BBNaija ex-housemate, Ceec has a message for people thinking 'a woman can't be successful without being tied to a man'

This is Ceec's response to people calling her out for not attending Leo's recent event where he launched a Foundation in honour of his late mum.

Well packaged lady, my boo will never cheat on me' - Endowed lady boasts on Twitter

The endowed lady pictured above, took to Twitter flaunt her curvy backside and wrote: 'My boo would never cheat: I’ve got the whole package.'

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Pregnant woman in coma after witnessing the alleged murder of her father-in-law, a retired Nigerian police officer

One Comr Chukwu Ogbu has narrated how his father, a retired Nigerian police officer, was assassinated by unknown gunmen. His pregnant wife, who witnessed the incident went into coma.

"My dad has being assassinated by unknown Assailants. He was shot and left in the pool of his own blood...an innocent man who served 35yrs in the Nigeria Police & retired, they murdered him in cold blood.....

My pregnant wife traumatized and unconscious after witnessing it... This is too much for a man to bear in a single night!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" he wrote.